Right Way??

yeah!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!should I be happy??holidays come to the end and I have to back to college life soon...second semester of advance diploma...@.@

Time-table has been out few days ago, I'm kinda like the this time-table as got a lot of free time...wait!!this doesn't mean that I'm free....by the way, it implicates that a thunderstorm is coming slowly...lots of assignment, coursework and so on...as I can say, by that period, cyber center, study room, hostel canteen...will be my second home...third...and so on... *dying soon...

I ONLY(*crying) have 4 subjects for this coming semester:

1) Advanced Accounting Practice

2) Taxation @.@

3) Performance Management

4) Corporate Finance

ya, this will be my life for this coming few months. I wouldn't be home every week. May be one month once?? I hope is not... oh ya!! my friends, I'll only go out for movie, shopping or others once a month...>.<...is just because I want to concentrate in my study as my first semester result is not that good (I know it is worst!!) and I don't want to spend before I know how to earn...I don't want to owe my parents so much as I know I already owing them since I born and this will go on until the end of my life...

IT IS THE TIME TO CHANGE~~

1) study

2) stuDY

3) STUDYYYYYYY

this is what I found just now~~nice right??

my dream house~~

of course not this la...my dream house will be design by me~~^^

will be somewhere in the jungle~~>.<

far away from the city...

I like this~~^^

and this...

because of the bamboo~~hehhe

I remember that in my facebook>>How Well You Know Winn Tan, one of the question is something like this : I would like to......if I'm not an accountant. Yes, the answer is ''become an architect (dream house)''. I wish to design a house for myself and even for others people. A interior designer also can...I know this is just a dream as 'accounting' is already halfway on...well, it will be my motivation to move on as I want to earn more to make it possible~~and also 7 years of promises...still got 5 more years...both of you must wait for me ya~~^^

now only I realise that I don't like account...
but, I'll find my way to love it~~



往往现实与梦想是残酷的，

就如天使不能与恶魔共存，

人生，人生，

人往往生活在身不由己的世界里。。。


‘我一個人走 一個人看透 一個人受

路我自己選擇 我一個人走’by Yida《寫給自己的歌》

No worry, I'll move on...

for my family...

Sekinchan

Finally can upload the pictures~~I was trying to update this post few days ago, but.....the stupid line......@.@......
Second station>>Sekinchan (适耕庄〉〉适合耕种的村庄)

It was my cousin's wedding dinner even though I did not know him. So long I didn't come to Sekinchan. It was a good trip for me. I mean it is a good place where you can take a good rest.

pictures~~

pictures again~~>.<

and again~~@.@

and....again....=.=''

'sot' pictures again in the room...

The next morning...

'shopping' in the farm~~^^

peaceful~~

support GREEN~~^^

For our lunch, 5 out of the 6 dishes were FISHHHHHH!!!!!!some of them were shark which very famous in Sekinchan. Not bad, just very spicy for me~~^^

Sekinchan is really a nice place to release stress for me. If you have a chance, come to visit this place which took me more than 3 hours to reach there~~hehhe



This will be my second station and will be the last station of my holidays. The third station is today, but I 'ffk' due to some reasons. Sorry for that, friends. Enjoy yourselves!

Just to Share>>幾個男人做的到 ~破窗效應~

~破窗效應~ 一位成功的男人！
阿偉是一位成功的外科醫生，和太太結婚二十年，兒子已入大學。
在一次大學同學會，重遇初戀情人Alice。
Alice當年是 眾男生的夢中情人，公認的美人兒。
就是現在，仍比實際年齡漂亮年輕 。
當初，為了一個誤會，再加兩人的自尊心特強，就這樣分開了。
後來，Alice去了外國，阿偉留在香港。
初戀的夭折，一度 令阿偉痛苦不已，幾乎垮了，幸虧得到一位護士同事的關心和鼓勵，令他於走出感情低谷，重拾心情，這位女同事就成了他的太太。
不料二十年後重逢Alice。
那晚，他們談了很多，解除了誤會，只是大家都已人到中年！
次日Alice打電話邀阿偉去淺水灣酒店燭光晚餐，阿偉問：「是不是請我太太一起去？」
Alice回答：「我只 想請你一個人，我們已失去太多時光，現在是彌補的時候。」
「對不起，除了因公事，晚上我一般不單獨外出吃晚飯。」
「你不是怕老婆吧？」Alice 譏諷他。
「我怕老婆！」他直認不諱。
「我好怕不自覺地 令她不開心。」
幾日後，Alice又特地讓快遞公司送來一封信，信封上寫明要他親啟，並且注明：only for you！
阿偉將信原封退回。
「本來，我會讓太太也看這封信的，既然你不希望她看，我也不看了。我已習慣與她分享生活中的一切喜怒哀樂。」
Alice很氣忿。
她見過阿偉的太太，已中年發福，且不擅修飾，像個屋村師奶，相反，自己比實際年齡要年輕得多，風韻猶存。
當年阿偉追她追得這樣熱烈，他不可能對她失去feeling的，一定是阿偉的太太兇神惡煞。
她一不做二不休，當下親身到他診所去。
「阿偉，你只需講 yes or no 。你仍對我有 feeling嗎？你還愛我嗎？你以前是十分愛我的。」
阿偉只笑笑。「愛一個人與恨一個人同樣需要精力和能力。感情過去了，應該無愛無恨，古人說:一笑泯恩愁。讓已過去的、無法改變的事實影響目前，根本毫無好處。我已將我的全部愛分給我的家人，而且，我已過了這種玩浪漫感情的年紀了。」
Alice仍不死心。
「你真的愛你太太？還是僅出於一種義務和責任？賽過當年對我那份初戀之情？」
「我是醫生。我相信一種科學說法，真正的愛只 能維持十個月，正好是由胚胎到嬰兒哇哇出世所需的時日。這或許要從生物進化的角度來解釋。但愛不同愛情，愛，或許只是一種由荷爾蒙分泌而激發出的感情反應，一如我受傷會流淚，開心會微笑，是一種很生物式的感情反應。用一個不合適的比喻：雄性動物在追求異性時，毛會特別亮麗，叫聲也會特別悅耳．愛，只是一種行為，動物也懂得用舔觸等動作表示『愛』，然而，唯有愛情才是人類獨有的能力。一個情字，令人類愛的行為，變得成熟、深沉，由一種單一的行為上升為一種情懷。我很懷念我們的初戀，但我更珍惜我和太太的婚姻，珍惜我們一起走過的這段路。」
阿偉的思路非常清晰，不愧為一位名醫生。
他十分明白，當初在他感情最低谷、最消沉時，是現在的太太給他溫暖，喚起他的信心。
後來，太太省吃儉用自己帶著兒子獨守空巢，支持阿偉外出留學深造。
這二十來年，是太太伴他走過來的。
太太全心于這個家，無心顧及自己的儀 容、衣著，她將每一分一秒，都花在家人身上。
而且，太太屬於那種生活低調，安于做男人背後女人的那種類型。
阿偉不想太太為了他而刻意改變自己，做她不喜歡做的事。
因為愛她，他也尊重她，由她選擇她自己喜歡的生活方式。
「我們互相看著白髮開始萌生，皺紋出現，因為這後面包含著許多只有我們兩人知道的故事，孩子的出世，我們第一間屋的喬遷，雙方父母病故的哀痛，我們升職，她的一次有驚無險的大手術……點點滴滴都寫在她和我的皺紋上，也只有她和我才懂得。至於你，Alice，我很懷念那段我們花樣的年華，我不會用現在幸福充實的家庭生 活去交換那段時日的延續，這只有百害而無一利。如果我們都珍惜我們的初戀，珍惜這次難得的二十年後的重逢，我們就這樣互相握手、互道『珍重』吧！」
Alice聽了這番話， 默默擁抱了阿偉，轉頭就離開了。
人說，蒼蠅不叮無縫的蛋。
今天婚外情、一夜情氾濫，但這絕成不了你忽略她、冷淡她的理由。
珍惜你與她一起走過的路，如同你對她的愛，會如醇酒，愈陳舊愈香。
心理學的研究上有個現象叫做「破窗效應」，就是說，一個房子如果窗戶破了，沒有人去修補，隔不久，其他的窗戶也會莫名其妙的被人打破；一面牆，如果出現一些塗鴉沒有清洗掉，很快的，牆上就佈滿了亂七八糟，不堪入目的東西。
一個很乾淨的地方，別人會不好 意思丟垃圾，但是一旦地上有垃圾出現之後，就會讓人毫不猶疑地顯露惡行，且絲毫不覺羞。
因此那方清靜之地需要隨時用心經營、擦拭的。


sent by KC Tan
how many guys can do that??

Steamboat

yo!! HOLIDAYS!! here I go!!
first station>>Vei Ni's Nilai Appartment

shop for the foods for steamboat~~

feeling hangueeeeee??^^

eat ahhhhh!!!

they all going without me~~T.T

wanna complain to yy!!

hahha...I'm having serious flu and was sleeping in the house ALONE!!

they dare to leave me alone and went to KLIA took nice pictures!!

hahhaha...

~~FRIENDSHIP FOREVER~~

'Disappear' Life

yo yo!!!finally update your blog!!sure you will say that...hahha...yea~~finally...just want to share something that happened during my first semester of advance diploma...^^

my classmates~~suffering with the stupid AUDIT assignment...

just to tell you something>>I don't want to see Mcd anymore!!!!

don't know how many times I've been there to eat and study early in the morning...

war in Mcd for the war of my final exam~~

hahhah....half of the semester's newspaper that I haven read yet...wao~~

i know, busy is not the reason~~@.@

meanwhile, I enjoyed myself with my diploma classmates....

erm...average one movie a week!!^^

oh ya...first time I went to cyber center to play games>>L4D...'thanks' to them for teaching me all the bad thing....hahaha...*joking*...just to release my stress during my exam...^^

shop!! shop!! shop!!


with jen...

2 so po~~^^

hangueeeeeeeeeeeeeeee~~~~ (hungry...my word^^)

simple dinner with sharon and ying yi~~^^

part of memories of my life...it will be a sweet memories when we getting older and older~~

steamboat with my advance diploma classmates (Group8)

even though not the whole class...

still got a lot of chances~~

last day of my final exam

of course need to celebrate for it!!!wohooo~~~^^

enjoyed it~~

waiting for the result, but I hope that I'll never know it...

i know it will be the worst result...im worry...

Im BACKKKKK

finally is my turn to take a rest after a 'war'....thinking what to blog...^^